Secrets to a Submissive Man’s Desire

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Submissive Man secrets 

There are basic and certain submissive men crave in an FLR relationship. These cravings may seem out of the ordinary or ridiculous to some, but you can decide what it is that you crave. deciding what it is that catches your attention and desire might be different but we all know what being submissive means.

One thing that most submissive craves is to give themselves 100% to their partner and get recognition for it. They want their partner to know that they will submit themselves to them at any point. They will do what they are told and look forward to it. Their goal is to satisfy their partner, they want to do things for their partner which may include house chores, errands, work-related things… Couples do this on a daily basis, it doesn’t take away from your status. This offering of their submission is one quick way for them to make a huge difference in their partner’s life.

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Submissive man sexuality

This is what makes submissive men crave the chase of a dominant woman that is involved within the femdom community. The desire of feeling safe and loved is what we all desire and there are different ways of displaying how one cares for the other.  Some feel that from being in control while others find that from being controlled. Sexual submissiveness is a turn on and can be said by both the Mistress and the submissive.

Male chastity is a prime example of sexual submission. The one thing a submissive can do to belong to their dominant partner 24/7 without anyone knowing except the couple who is involved. Feeling connected and not in control is what they enjoy, the Mistress controls it as for she unlocks him or not. She decided when he can ejaculate and when he can’t. A true submissive will even respect her wishes when he is not locked up and save himself for her and his relationship.



The structure is also craved by the submissive. Not only does he wants direction but it required that he not give his input. The orders that are given to him is a part of having structure. You have to know your place a sub. Submissive men would rather be spanked and feel all is right in the relationship than to be left wondering where he stands. This goes for any so-called punishment.

It is somewhat childish in thought but extremely simple in the submissive mind. He simply wants to make things right in the relationship and move forward at her feet.

Most submissives are humble to some degree and desire to be more humble. They wish to have their partner desire their submission and humility. Not as degradation but as a commitment to their relationship. If mama ain’t happy nobody is happy, everyone throws that saying around. For a true submissive it caries deep meaning and his failures in the relationship will be taken hard by him.



A Submissive man craves attention. It may seem by their desire to be a follower in the female-led relationship that they do not crave attention but it is just the opposite. That is their goal. Attention! they will settle for negative attention if that is all they can get. They desire to trade their average lives for a hyper-charged one of tease and denial. For multiple orgasms without ejaculation to the point that if they are not expected to remain ejaculation free they are failing. They want you to say no! They want you to hold your feminine power over them and they crave you to exercise it.

If you have a submissive man, learn to understand their cravings and tell us about your experience!

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  7. I have to say this is so very true. I am new to dominating as i came out of a marriage where i was submissive for 10 yrs. My new relationship has opened me up and made me understand I can be more…that being said I was ok with playing around with BDSM…I had before anyway. We started out switching roles with each other but then I found after some time…when it was his turn I would wait and wait and wait. He also would become very withdrawn and stressed out. I had to take charge. He is the happiest man slave/sub now.
    Never let a day go by without showing your love and attention by dominating your sub.

  8. The ONE thing a submissive man really “wants” is to know he is (somehow) “needed” by his Domme. But, a “real” Domme doesn’t actually “need” a man, but rather accepts him into Her world because he can provide something she “wants”, not needs. So it is an irony – the best a sub can hope for is to be loved, maybe wanted for certain things, but not needed. For me, once I realized my Domme was not playing a role, or catering to a single fantasy of my own, and my only possible way of being “useful” was to submit entirely, she broke me. I felt the reality of my own uselessness UNLESS I obeyed, trusted and catered to her. Why? Because she didn’t NEED me, and never, ever would.

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