List of submissive male Punishments
If he’s not performing to Your satisfaction, or You just feel the need to assert Your right to punish Your slave.
how to punish your slave
– Spank or whip your submissive male. (wooden spoon, hairbrush, belt, ruler, ping pong paddle, riding crop, switch, cat-o-nine tails…)
– Tie him in an uncomfortable position.
– Tie his ankles together and attach his balls to them.
– Hogtied. (wrists and ankles tied together)
– Hanging from the ceiling by his wrists.
– In a chair with his knees pulled up to his shoulders – good for spanking and everything is exposed and vulnerable.
– Tie up his balls and cock with a long leather thong, clothesline, or bootlace. Use a long piece, and wrap the base and balls repeatedly. Do each ball separately. Tie tight loops around his shaft from base to tip. Then tie the end off back between his legs and up to a belt or to his handcuffs.
– Make him wear a chastity belt or cock cage.
– Attach clothespins or nipple clips to his nipples, balls, cock or wherever.
– Put a butt plug in his ass. Or get out the strap-on.
– Enema.
– Double up on his domestic chores, make them more difficult: tie his hands; make him use a toothbrush to clean the toilet, tie his ankles with a short chain and make him wear extra high heels.
– Deny him orgasms for a long period of time.
– Have him lick You clean after you pee.
– Put Ben-gay or icy-hot on his penis and nipples.
– Drip candle wax on him.
– Make him do exercises (jumping jacks, leg spreads, squats, aerobics, yoga…)
– Humiliate him in public…take him shopping for panties/lingerie
Feel free to add any suggestions to our list for your submissive male punishments!
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I am a submissive male and slave of my mistress. Can anyone help me suggesting perfect position and gestures during foot worship. I am severely being punished due to my mistakes while I am serving my mistress. Recently my punishment course has been drastically increased as my mistress seeks more and more obedience and perfection in my slavery. I am now being punished 6 times in a week instead of thrice. Some time I am to keep myself in stand still position for whole night. Ball kicking and whipping sometime are so severe that I am not being able to withstand. Very hard nipple clips she is using for my small mistakes. I am slapped everyday for 30times. I am lucky enough to receive punishment for my correction but sometime it is going beyond of my capacity. I beg to my mistress but she knows my point of breaking down and strictly follows what she has already determined. Now I am being so scared and nervous that I can hardly do things normal infront of my mistress. My body gets cold in fear of being punished I am to keep my cock always stiff and wet to show my submission. Please tell me some tips to make my mistress please so that I received a bit less punishment at least.
You are being the best submissive you can be. Perhaps you can take a timeout from being a submissive who is getting punished and have a discussion with your Mistress about your limits during your punishment sessions.
Samsat, You have no idea how lucky you are. You are being treated precisely the way you should be. “Limits” should be up to your Owner — not you. Your feelings are of zero importance. It is about your Owner. Get used to it. I shall probably become more severe — if you are very lucky.
make him take cold showers every morning. I was forced to do this and it worked wonders. make him get up every morning at 5 am . march him to the shower and make him do as many pushups as he can to warm his core. start the water just cool almost body temp after about 30 seconds turn it a bit colder . make him soap up all over . then rinse
off . make him stay in for five to six minuets . after three days , after 30 secs turn the water a bit colder make him
soap again then rinse front and back then a bit colder and soap again . keep this up till he can take full cold for six
minuets. if this works for him he will wake up at 5 on his own and look forward to his cold shower every day as i did .
when i got back to bed my lady would feel my skin , if it was really cold she would often reward me with some kind of sex. sometimes but not often i was sent back for another shower. this is a true story. i started around age 50
i am now 70 and still have to take cold showers almost every morning . this has been a grate discipline for me .
if i can help you get started please contact me . ED
If Mistress pleases, She can make punishment a joint ritual in which the slave is a participant. Done properly, this will make the slave understand the need for correction, to improve its ability to perform its role in life: serving Mistress and making Her happy.
Here’s an example. Given a command, slave fails to do the job as thoroughly, or as quickly, as Mistress can reasonably expect (it’s important for Mistress to be reasonable and not expect super-human results, nor let slave get away with half-measures). She firmly calls slave to present itself kneeling at Her feet, and calmly tells it how it has displeased Her, ending with “Do you understand?” If the slave tries to “explain,” beyond simply “Yes, Mistress,” a riding-crop across the face will silence it and impress slave with the seriousness of its mistake.
“When you displease Me, you must be punished. Do you understand?” She says, and the reply will be a subdued “Yes, Mistress.” “I think you know why that is necessary.” “Now tell me why I am about to punish you,” should bring an acknowledgement of its failure. “I do this for your sake, to make you a better slave. You want to please Mistress, don’t you?” After “Yes, Mistress” and perhaps a kiss on Your toe, You tell slave to fetch the whip or cat that You have decided to use for this particular correction. When it returns, You explain calmly that the punishment will be so many strokes (again, be reasonable but firm in Your judgment) and place the slave for the procedure. Having it kiss the whip or cane is a nice touch, and You may wish to have it count the strokes, with “Thank You, Mistress” after each, to underline the purpose of this ritual and keep slave’s attention on the importance of corrective pain, which You must administer with “tough love,” I like to finish by allowing slave to crawl, usually on its belly, to where I am sitting to rest after this work, and offer Me a final gesture of gratitude and submission by kissing My boots, perhaps even licking them clean if needed. Words of reassurance, “I know you will do better,” possibly even a hug, are an appropriate response on Your part. Once the punishment is done, all is restored and life as Mistress and slave continues.
For me it was learning to kiss every inch of her feet, even if she just came back from the gym. I also had to lose weight for her, but had wanted to anyway. I fought against her demand for smooth shaven cock and balls… but eventually gave in sometimes and its not so.bad.
Lady Linda LaVerne is the Perfect Mistress!! Her magnificent communication on July 17, 2021, which this unworthy insect has just had the pleasure and privilege to read, is precisely correct, and Her grasp of the true nature of Femdom relationship is exactly right. Furthermore, She explains it in the clearest way, so that anyone, whether a Young Mistress just leaning the Divine Art of Domination, or even a stupid male animal like this bootlicking dog, with its dull brain, can understand.
Indeed, Lady Linda’s details — having Her slave kiss the whip, as well as the feet of the Instructress guiding it to improved servitude and enhanced humility, and repeating Her judgment of the slave’s failure to please its Owner, so that it knows exactly how it must strive for improvement — these are priceless.
May it please the lovely Lady, this groveling slave sends Her a
heartfelt and sincere cyber-kiss on the precious toe of Her beautiful boot, in the humblest gratitude for the exquisite instruction She was kind enough to post on this site. To Mistress Jennie, also, a kiss on Your boots in thanks for helping the world to see and read these inestimable words of wisdom.
If only this worm could actually crawl at Your feet, sweet Mistresses, and lick Your boots to a glittering shine…. ah, but it is not worthy even to dream of such a paradise.