How to Control Your Submale

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How to Control Your Submale

The following is a list of things that you should be doing. Not everything will apply in every case, and there may be things not on the list that work for you.

1. You must absolutely take total control of his orgasms!

  • You must get him to wear a chastity device of some kind.
  • You should put it on him yourself and only you should hold the key.
  • Let him out at your discretion only and only for teasing or release.


2. Control your own feelings of guilt.

  • He should never be permitted to have any kind of orgasm without your permission.
  • If you feel he deserves an orgasm… Ruin it!
  • Remember, you can ruin several orgasms a day, but he can only have one full one.
  • Full orgasms should be for very special occasions (no more than 3 or 4 per year).


3. You must get into his head!

  • Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.
  • Tease him with your words whenever possible.
  • Find out what humiliates him.
  • Use his humiliation whenever possible.


4. You must keep him sexually aroused as much as possible.

  • Talk sexy to him.
  • Tell him you are going to make him do something humiliating.
  • Fondle him, or let him fondle you.
  • Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.
  • Make him give you orgasms frequently.


5. Make him do something humiliating.

  • Make him wear a butt-plug for a time.
  • Make him naked when you are not.
  • Make him masturbate for you.
  • Always, ALWAYS make him eat his own cum no matter where it is deposited.


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6. Punish him whenever he displeases you.

  • Don’t let him get away with anything!
  • Spank, paddle, or whip him.
  • Humiliate him in some way.
  • Put Bengay or Icy-Hot on his cock, balls, or anus.
  • Make him do anything he hates.


7. No matter what you are doing, or where you are, find ways to tease your sub male

  • Fondle him through his pants in public (or in private).
  • Whispering sexy or humiliating things in his ear.
  • Make him shop for lingerie with you.

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6 thoughts on “How to Control Your Submale”

  1. My wife and I have played with a WLM and really got into it when our youngest left home. The biggest humiliation and probably most awesome was when I got my head shaved with clippers and then a razor. My wife had planned it all along and actually bought the right shaving items without me knowing. It was my birthday surprise she said. I was going bald anyway and since my wife thought I looked better bald I keep it smooth. She decided to me a mistress then and there. She was going to order me to shave anyway. She loves to tease me about my head, especially those times when I’m the only bald man in the room, which is getting rare since so many men shave these days.

  2. I have been dominated by my wife/ owner for a long time and I believe my Mistress did about everything that was mentioned on “how to control your sub male” my mistress whips me but not just for things I’ve done wrong but she whips me just to keep me in the right frame mind to maintain my submission to her authority and the other thing my Mistress loves is to humiliate me by letting people see her with her lover in public and she dates a taller very handsome athletic looking black man so people that know us ,know that isn’t me and we have gone out to the club the 3 of us before and it’s really all black men and white women at the club where they go and my Mistress and her lover have friends there both women ,men and couples come by they ask who am I and my wife laughs and says my husband and if I’m there they get so hot and sexy , I thought they were going to start fucking right there in the club at times and a few of the waiters and the bar maids know them it’s very humiliating My male ego is obliterated , and if this happens , you would think a humiliating scenario like that would make me mad like to take revenge or a least walk out but not me it just sends deeper into submission they go out holding each other smiling kissing and I walk behind them in humiliation it’s like they took a knife and cut my balls off and me with my little tiny wieenie dicklet squashed In a mini cage sleep on the floor and they lay naked in our bed all night making love there’s no denying I’m a beta little dick cuckold cum eating submissive punk slave and I love it my owner and her black lovers over the years have really transformed me I accept it I feel it’s their right slave cc

  3. Fingertips caressing his face, moving one finger to his lips. If his lips part, then insert that finger. He will suck without prompting. Relish the significant moment of his surrender. Introduce back and forth movement, even asking if he is comforted. Works as dommy mommy or laying the groundwork for strapon and cuckolding.

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