How To FEMDOM your boyfriend or husband?

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So, you are into Femdom? For many Alpha women, controlling their boyfriend or husband can be very erotic. Breaking the conventional molds of both a male-dominated society and treating him in a way that is against everything we were taught as little girls can be thrilling and empowering.
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Control your man

For the men that accept/enjoy this form of domination it can be a sexual experience so strong in itself, it can cause light-headedness, an increase of heart rate, a strong sense of devotion to you and in some cases even ejaculations. We all have heard that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, but one way to his mind is through his penis.
Treating him in a way that arouses and denies him will keep him coming back for more. It is up to you to ensure this. His cock is directly linked to his brain, you control one, you control the other.

You don’t know what you’re capable of expressing, feeling, or sharing until you try new things. Pushing your boundaries, teasing your senses, trusting your partner — these things empower you to identify sides of your personality you didn’t know were there. And wow, will you be excited to find them.

It’s time to let your freak flag fly.
Or at the very least — find it.

The following is a list of things that you should be doing. Not everything will apply in every case, and there may be things not on the list that work for you.

Femdoming List tips

1. You must absolutely take total control of his orgasms!

  • You must get him to wear a chastity device of some kind.
  • Put it on him yourself and only you should hold the key.
  • Let him out at your discretion only and only for teasing or release.

2. Control your own feelings of guilt.

  • He should never be permitted to have any kind of orgasm without your permission.
  • If you feel he deserves an orgasm… Ruin it!
  • Remember, you can ruin several orgasms a day, but he can only have one full one.
  • Full orgasms should be for very special occasions (no more than 3 or 4 per year).

3. You must get into his head!

  • Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.
  • Tease him with your words whenever possible.
  • Find out what humiliates him.
  • Use his humiliation whenever possible.

4. You must keep him sexually aroused as much as possible.

  • Talk sexy to him.
  • Tell him you are going to make him do something humiliating.
  • Fondle him, or let him fondle you.
  • Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.
  • Make him give you orgasms frequently.

5. Make him do something humiliating.

  • Make him wear a butt-plug for a time.
  • Ask him to be naked while you are not.
  • Order him masturbate for you.
  • Always, ALWAYS make him eat his own cum no matter where it is deposited.

6. Punish him whenever he displeases you.

  • Don’t let him get away with anything!
  • Spank, paddle, or whip him.
  • Humiliate him in some way.
  • Put Bengay or Icy-Hot on his cock, balls, or anus.
  • Make him do anything he hates.

7. No matter what you are doing, or where you are, find ways to tease him.

  • Fondle him through his pants in public (or in private).
  • Whisper sexy or humiliating femdom things in his ear.
  • Make him shop for lingerie with you.

That’s it for now… I will stop here. I hope you loved reading this guide on how to tease your sub. If you have other Ideas please comment it, I will add the good ones!

 

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9 thoughts on “How To FEMDOM your boyfriend or husband?”

  1. I kept testing my husband especially cock teasing forcing him to eat my pussy and denying him the pleasure of vaginal intercourse. I’m an excellent fellatrix using my powers to keep him on the edge and beg for my lips around his cock. I actually wanted a husband that could eat my pussy more than give me a good screwing. I made him spend hours under the sheets giving me pleasure with his tongue denying him attention to his raging erection. if I did allow him to come inside of me he would have to go down on me lick me to an orgasm and clean up the mess. I found out that he liked his prostate massaged and I started milking him while massaging his prostate denying him erections for several days because he couldn’t get it up after getting milked. One night I got on top of him 69 style and taught him how to eat my ass while I ate his. We both have long tongues and tongue fucked each other‘s asses until we both orgasmed. Now I had a slave who could eat my pussy then I could roll over and have him lick my ass afterwords giving me double the pleasure. I bought a harness and dildo and taught my slave how to suck my cock before I took his virginity. I shaved off all his pubic hair to humiliate him and now I force him to shave himself just like my own crotch which is bare. Of course I incorporate physical punishment with numerous different toys and sometimes just taking him over my lap and giving him a long hard bare bottom spanking. My slave is a very nasty boy and always comes up with new ways for me to torment him during our sessions so everyone is always different.

  2. Hello, i’m pamela. I’m married to my wonderful wife who fulfilled my fantasy. I’m now in a 24/7/365 locked mode. Mistress doesn’t allow me a lot of orgasms (i had only 3 last year (from 1/1/2019 to 12/31/2019)) and i only had one this year for my birthday on 06/25/2020.
    Mistress often masturbates in front of me, but most of the times she has me go down on her.
    the first time Mistress cuckolded me, it was with my best friend. We were at a family meeting and were sleeping in a tent. Mistress spent the night talking and joking with G. often looking my direction and laughing.
    G. took Mistress by her hand and went to our tent. Mistress called me and said “tonight you will be sleeping in the car, it’s only a 2 places tent!)
    In the morning i saw that none of us three slept a lot. Mistress, on our way to home told me everything about their night. He is very well endowed and now how to use it. They will meet again.

  3. Hi
    On this subject, ‘How to femdom your boyfriend or husband’. Check this guidance manual out. Here’s the link

  4. One sided, nonconsensual article about femdom. I read the whole article but didn’t get to read anything about male partners consent. Also there is nothing about hard limits and safe words.
    The article was only ment to excite womens to force their partners into femdom, which is not going to work at all. First of all I will advise all women to talk freely with their male partners and see if they are really into Slave mode, if not then don’t force them otherwise it will end up your sweet relationship with him.
    If men do want to get in submissive mode then don’t directly go for Chastity training..ask him if he gives you consent for that … otherwise playing with other person’s genetials without his consent is equivalent to rape.
    Also, making him to eat his own cum may be humiliating but it can become more homosexual thing sometimes and may end up your partner being sissy or homosexual.
    Femdom is actually healthy D/S relationship but like Maledom, it too should be practiced with consent and hardlimits/safewords otherwise there will be no difference in abuse and ethics of femdom even if it is practice with your husband/boyfriend.

  5. Hi Rony,
    I agree with a lot of what you said. Communication, limits, and ground rules should be talked about. I’m a sub male slave to my Mistress. She has me wear a cock cage for are sessions but, that’s about the only time I wear one. She treats me like a slut and I love it. I’m a senior and got started late in this lifestyle. The other thing, when you go to humilate your husband or boyfriend know how far to go with it. I take a lot from my Mistress but, I’ll let her know if she’s gone too far.

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