There are lots of questions, and the last few months have forced me to think. I want to be a good dog, a good slave, a good man for a dominant women.
In this text I am requestingfor helpfromthedominantcommunity.
I am hoping that this way I am able to become a good slave. I hope to receivemany comments.IthinkthequestionsthatIaskmyself,certainly all new submissives ask, and can help.
1. Does every women hide a dominant side?
On mypart,Ialwaysthought that women hid their dominance.However,it isspecificallythefirstpartofthequestionthatintrigues me.Indeed,betweenthe 24/7 lifestyle membersandthosewhoonly do sessions from time to timetosatisfytheirsexualurges,thereisaworld. I havedecidedformyselfto be betterthanIhave.So,I imaginethatevenifitisnot100%ofthetimewhenwe‘re inthisposition,thiscanbeafactualquoteat anymomentoflife. Butthen,whatis theplaceforwomen? Some women do not necessarily want to be 24/7 Dominant. Othershave,too,maybethewishtobe able tolet gofromtimetotime?
Myanswerisasfollows.As aslave,even if we want a 24/7 arrangement,this is up to the Dominant to chooseifshewants toenjoy it full time or not. So,she can ask for time “off”ifshe is not inthemood… AmIright?I hope so.
2. What kind of submissive man do I need to become to seduce my ideal Mistress?
Adog-submittedatthefootofhismistress on allfourlegs likea bitch dog.
Awhoreto be usedwithoutrestriction?
A dominant maninpublicanda submissive slave for his Mistress in private.
Adogtohismistresswho comesatthefirst whistle
A piece of furniturethat shecanuseatherwhim…foot rest,coat rack,table,orworseforsomehumantoilet…
I‘mnotsurethatthereisonly oneanswertothisquestion.Alltastes of life. Somemayfindrepugnantpracticeswhile othersfindthesesameveryexcitingpractices.
Ithinkthattherearecertainlyasmanytypesofsubmissive men then there are dominant women in the femdom lifestyle.So how do we findonethatsuitsus?How to facilitatetheladiestheopportunitytofindus?
Here,I‘malittleconfused,soI hope it is easier for dominant women to find their submissives. Andifthereissomethingwecandoorwriteinourprofilestomake it easier…donothesitate to tell us!
3. How do I stay a well trained slave after slave training by my Mistress?
This is certainly what I need the most help with. So,Iamamalewithastrong temper and I love the gameofseduction.
Intermsof temper, Ialwaysthoughtithad to beadominant women you would need to have a strong temper.Shemustbe“more”temperamentalthanme.Intheend, come to think of it,Idoubt it. Thereisno doubtthathaving a strong character, makes it easiertoforce obedience. It’slikewithchildren,naturalauthority makes thingseasier.A“firmly”and“dominant” character arequicklyidentifiedbythe expressionofourbody. It isthereforesimplerwhenthe onewelovealreadyhasthisnatural authority.
Also, I imagined all dominant women were to take the controlof a submitted rebel.I wasmistaken,Ilost it alltobelieveit.Now,IrealizeI waswrong. Indeed as a natural dominant on a daily basis, her efforts are not enough to change the relationship, the submissive must also change.
I used to think all dominant women like to share their sexual slave with other Mistresses. It was quite exciting for a lot of men to be the slave of multiple women.
I do realize now that not all the dominant women like to share their sex toy. Exclusivityisrequired.
Thenthecageofchastity. Is it agoodwaytotaketheirsubmissives?
I will certainlyhaveotherissuestoputout topasture(besidesme!) inyourminds.…sothank youagaintoallthosewhowill takethetimeto leaveacommentforus(me) tohelp me move forwardandbe a better slave foryou dominantladies.