The Perfect Contract for a Successful FLR

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The FLR contract

The best way to ensure a perfect and successful FLR is to ensure a complete understanding of the relationship by both parties.


This contract is presented as a lasting agreement, which attempts to define in specific terms the relationship and interaction between two people, hereafter called the slave and mistress. This agreement must be signed voluntarily, but can not be broken except as provided therein, after which certain precautions must be taken to protect those involved. (See section 7.0.0)


1.0.0 Role of the slave:

The slave agrees to submit completely to the Mistress in all ways. There will be no limit on place, time, or situation in which the slave can refuse to obey an order from his mistress without the risk of punishment, except in situations where the slave will be granted a veto (see section 1.0.1).

The slave also agrees that, once this contract is signed, his body becomes the property of the Mistress who can do what she likes, within the limits defined in this contract.

The slave agrees to try to please the Mistress to the best of his abilities, in that it is primarily for the pleasure of the Mistress.

1.0.1 Veto for the Slave:

The slave, in special circumstances, holds a veto on any order that may be given by the Mistress. Then he has the right to refuse to obey an order. This power can only be invoked in the following circumstances, or when the Mistress and slave agree.

He can use a veto when the given order:

  1.  conflicts with one or several existing laws and could lead to a fine, arrest, or appearance in the courts of the slave.
  2. could cause extreme damage to the slave, such as loss of a job, causing family stress, etc.
  3. could cause permanent bodily harm (see 4.0.0) to the slave.
  4. could cause psychological trauma to the slave, such as a rape scene for a slave having been raped in the past.

2.0.0 Role of the Mistress:

The Mistress accepts responsibility for the body of the slave so that it can enjoy as it wishes, respecting the conditions set by the contract. The Mistress agrees to take care of the slave, to ensure his safety and well-being, as she will own the slave. The Mistress also accepts to commit to treating the slave as it should be, the result, discipline, and use it according to his will.

3.0.0 Punishment:

The slave agrees to accept any punishment the Mistress decides to give him, whether he deserves it or not.

3.0.1 Rules for punishment:

Punishing the slave is an act subject to certain rules designed to protect the slave from intentional abuse or permanent bodily harm (see 4.0.0). The punishment should never cause permanent injury, or any of the following forms of abuse:

  1. Never shall we see blood. The punishment must end immediately if blood appears.
  2. Burn the body
  3. Drastic loss of circulation
  4. Causing internal bleeding
  5. Unconsciousness

4.0.0 Permanent Bodily Injury:

Since the body of the slave now belongs to the Mistress, she now has the responsibility to protect that body from any permanent injury. If ever the slave had to suffer a permanent injury during the administration of punishment or any other activity related to servitude, whether intentionally or by accident, there would be open for the immediate end of the contract if the slave desired.

A permanent injury will be determined as follows:

  1. Death
  2. Any damage that involves a restriction of mobility, including broken bones
  3. Any permanent marks on the skin, including burn scars, unless the slave consents
  4. Any loss of hair, unless the consent of the slave.
  5. Everything piercing the flesh which leaves a permanent hole, unless the slave consents.
  6. Any disease that can lead to the above results, including sexually transmitted diseases.

5.0.0 Other:

The slave may not seek any other Mistress or partner or share with anyone sexual activities or submission without the express permission of the Mistress. Doing so will be considered a breach of contract, and will result in a significant punishment. The Mistress may accept other slaves or partners but must consider the emotional response of the slave to these actions and act accordingly.

Under no condition should the Mistress allow these actions emotionally destabilize the slave, or drive the Mistress to ignore the slave. The Mistress may give the slave to other Mistresses, if and only if the rules of the agreement are maintained. In such a situation, the Mistress will inform the new Mistress of the contents of this contract and any violation by the new Mistress will be considered a violation by the Mistress also, subject to all the rules listed in this contract.

6.0.0 Discretion:

Any physical evidence of servitude must be kept in total secrecy, except in circumstances where the Mistress and slave agree to the contrary. Any violation of this clause will be enough to justify complete permanently this contract if the victim of the violation wants. The material and physical evidence of servitude should be kept locked up in a place known and acceptable to both parties.

7.0.0 Alteration of the contract:

This contract can be altered only if both the Mistress and slave agree to it. If the contract should be changed, the new contract shall be printed and signed, as well as the old contract must be destroyed.

8.0.0 Conclusion of the contract:

This contract may be terminated at any time by the Mistress, but never by the slave, except under special circumstances explained in this contract. At the conclusion of the contract, any physical evidence of slavery, including this contract, will belong to the Mistress. The slave who agreed to sell his body to the Mistress will recover the possession of his body in the event of termination of this contract.

9.0.0 Signature of the slave:

I have read and understood the entire contract. I accept to become the property of my Mistress and I confirm the transfer of ownership of my body to my Mistress. I understand that my Mistress will lead me, and punish me like a slave, and I promise to devote myself to her desires and pleasures to the best of my abilities. I understand that I can’t withdraw from this contract except as provided in this contract.


9.0.1 Signature of the Mistress:

I have read and understood this agreement in full. I accept the slave as my property and I pledge to take care of him to the best of my abilities. I will provide the slave security and well-being, as I will train and punish him as a slave. I understand the implicit liability of such a commitment and agree that no damage will be done to the slave as long as it remains my property. I further understand that I may withdraw this agreement at any time.


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14 thoughts on “The Perfect Contract for a Successful FLR”

  1. “This contract can not be altered, unless the Mistress and slave agree to the contrary.” This statement is nonsense: “Agree to the contrary?” It makes no logical sense. It is typical of much that is included herein. Were you on drugs when you wrote this piece, or do you just have a problem expressing yourself clearly in written English? I certainly hope you’re not a real lawyer, you’d get eaten alive in court.

  2. Submission to a superior Woman is the destiny of most men…This contract merely solidifies it in a beautiful way…a signing ceremony would be appropriate…

  3. A slave should always be obedient to his mistress.his place is at your feet.his only thought is to worship and to please you.

  4. I do like this contract but it is a bit confusing i agree.I’ m not so sure about having no way out apart from a Veto; such as, if the slave finds his situation becoming increasingly intolerable for some reason or other, since he had not contemplated the possibility thereof of such a thing happening to him. It is not always possible to determine, of the future, how well a slave can withstand any situation until he has at least experienced it to some degree or other so i would have to say that all and any contracts should be within the slave’s pre-determined and PRE- agreed time limits and precautionary exceptions.( At least to begin with) By Starting and Continuing along a path that is always going to be into the unknown there is always the possibility for events that can lead to anxieties setting in and these should be avoided wherever possible. What about the slave being sold and such too? In terms of Real Law. A slavery Contract is illegal but when you consider Employment law there’s always room for abuse to occur….On the other hand is n’t that part of the thrill and excitement on the part of both Mistress and slave alike?

    Roger Perry. User : meekandmild

  5. I was just wondering that in a real life femdom couple, does the woman actually care about the man or is she just using him to pleasure and satisfy herself? Does she actually love him and is she concerned about his well being at all? There are many such men available who will easily submit to her. So if her man stops pleasing her, will she simply discard him like garbage and move on to the next guy or does she have a real emotional connect with the man? Just curious.

  6. This is a bad re-write of a male master, female slave contract. Many of the pronouns are incorrect and there is nothing legal about this version. There is a legal contract out there and this is far from it. Tell me this is just BDSM fakery and the mistress would not have a clue. A fake mistress!

  7. Everyone understands that in the real (i.e., vanilla) world, slavery is illegal. Rather than close our eyes and pretend otherwise, why not devise an alternative Employment Contract or agreement that avoids the phrases that make these things ridiculous in an actual courtroom, but achieve the desired kinky result?
    The effort would require the services of an equally real lawyer, of course. One who is also sincerely into the Femdom scene, either from the top or the bottom perspective. (Ideally, how about a Domme/sub couple, both lawyers in the real world of vanilla? That would be great! It would cover all angles.).
    Perhaps, in fact, someone (or ones?) may read this suggestion and respond with a really good contract for, acceptable in the vanilla world as well as the kinky one. Solid gold! (Pro bono, please!)
    Just in case that happens, here are a few suggestions: “employer” and “employee” throughout, and none of the capitalization/lower-case stuff beloved by so many of us.
    A phrase like “The employer shall have exclusive authority to establish all working conditions, hours of employment and other matters concerning the terms of this agreement, but shall consult with the employee as necessary to establish all criteria,” will allow the Mistress or Master total command, while allow Him or Her to permit, at the Top’s option, a “slave veto” for unacceptable ideas such as permanent injury or scarification. But it does not hint at, or limit, what conditions the Top may set, which can include protocols, punishments and potty-breaks. Another phrase might read: “Employer shall make all necessary provisions for the appropriate welfare of the Employee,” which includes specifying the slave’s clothing (if any!) and a cell for sleeping, etc. “Employer shall determine from time to time the employee’s level of competence and utilize appropriate means to improve work performance; employee will accept all training specified by the employer,” authorizes the Master’s whip without turning an eyebrow.
    And so it goes. Have at it, you kinky legal beagles.

  8. It’s too long! Too many details! Get simple! write your own Mistress!
    the slave has no input! A slave cannot veto. Period. The slave is owned like any article or animal.. Collared if reqd. in chastity if desired by Owner. Clothes? You kidding right!
    a slave is kept naked. Totally naked even in front of guests. Well those in Fetish, BDSM.
    Body shaved incl. genitals. It makes slave completely utterly naked! slave here knows!
    slave should be punished regularly. Punishments may vary in length and
    force. Floggers and riding crops! Whips can kill! Forbidden. Friends can watch, but not interfere! slave can be lent, rented, gifted or sold! Being lent for a period certainly made this slave understand, it being OWNED.

  9. very pleased last comment shown! Bravo. A Slave contract is NOT reqd. It is a trust agreement. It cannot be legal.. Anyone can become a slave! Warning, it is not surrender or a moment of weakness! slave may become very strong physically and mentally! In my case, a desire to serve and make Ladies happy! Late learned because of public utterances, submissive had become a slave! In BDSM circles..
    Being lent to others enforced the Ownership! Realized slave was merely an Owned Article and Possession!
    One day, soon after i was gifted, The Lady wrote to explain that indeed this subbie was Her slave! A possession to please Her! To obey Her Needs! Technically am forbidden to say/write HER! Merely for this! If there is Love and Kindness, the Universe is open to both!

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