Need Help Becoming a Good Submissive Slave? Here’s How.

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 There are lots of questions, and the last few months have forced me to think. I want to be a good dog, a good Femdom slave, a good man for a Dominant woman.

In this text I am requesting for help from the Slave Selection dominant community.

I am hoping that this way I am able to become a good Femdom slave. I hope to receive many comments. I think the questions that I ask myself, certainly all new submissive ask, and can help.

1. Does every women hide a dominant side? 

On my part, I always thought that women hid their dominance. However, it is specifically the first part of the question that intrigues me. Indeed, between the 24/7 Femdom lifestyle members and those who only do sessions from time to time to satisfy their sexual urges, there is a world. I have decided for myself to be better than I have. So, I imagine that even if it is femdom slavenot 100% of the time when we‘re in this position, this can be a factual quote at any moment of life. But then, what is the place for women? Some women do not necessarily want to be 24/7 Dominant.  Others have, too, maybe the wish to be able to let go from time to time?
My answer is as follows. As a Femdom slave, even if we want a 24/7 arrangement, this is up to the Dominant to choose if she wants to enjoy it full time or not.  So, she can ask for time “off” if she is not in the moodAm I right? I hope so.

2. What kind of submissive man do I need to become to seduce my ideal Mistress?

I wonder what type of good slave we should be to please the Mistress with her fantasies.
  • A dog-submitted at the foot of his mistress on all four legs like a bitch dog.
  • A whore to be used without restriction?
  • A dominant man in public and a submissive slave for his Mistress in private. 
  • An animal or a thing?
  • A dog to his Mistress who comes at the first whistle
  • A piece of furniture that she can use at her whim… foot rest, coat rack, table, or worse for some human toilet
Femdom goddess
I‘m not sure that there is only one answer to this question. All tastes of lifeSome may find repugnant practices while others find these same very exciting practices.
I think that there are certainly as many types of submissive men then there are dominant women in the Femdom lifestyle. So how do we find one that suits us? How to facilitate the ladies the opportunity to find us?
Here, I‘m a little confused, so I hope it is easier for dominant women to find their submissives.  And if there is something we can do or write in our profiles to make it easier…do not hesitate to tell us!

3. How do I stay a well trained Femdom slave after slave training by my Mistress?

This is certainly what I need the most help with.  So, I am a male with a strong temper and I love the game of seduction.
In terms of temper, I always thought it had to be a dominant women you would need to have a strong temper. She must be “more” temperamental than me. In the end, come to think of it, I doubt it. There is no doubt that having a strong character, makes it easier to force  obedience. It’s like with children, natural authority makes things easier. A “firmly” and “dominant” character are quickly identified by the expression of our body.  It is therefore simpler when the one we love already has this natural authority.
Also, I imagined all dominant women were to take the control of a submitted rebel. was mistaken, I lost it all to believe it. Now, I realize I was wrong. Indeed as a natural dominant on a daily basis, her efforts are not enough to change the relationship, the submissive must also change.

Exclusive relationship

I used to think all dominant women like to share their sexual slave with other Mistresses. It was quite exciting for a lot of men to be the Femdom slave of multiple women.

I do realize now that not all the dominant women like to share their sex toy. Exclusivity is required.

Then the cage of chastity. Is it a good way to take their submissives?
I will certainly have other issues to put out to pasture (besides me!) in your minds. so thank you again to all those who will take the time to leave a comment for us (me) to help me move forward and be a better slave for you dominant ladies.

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6 thoughts on “Need Help Becoming a Good Submissive Slave? Here’s How.”

  1. awesome article! slave caged also wishes to be the perfect slave.
    slave caged desperately wishes to serve his Goddess forever locked in chastity,strictly bound,dildo’d and gagged.
    slave desires to be trained to obey without hesitation,question or discussion,accepting constant frustration and humiliation as part of the rest of slaves life. this is certainly the life for slave caged.

  2. Been in this lifestyle for years, absent for the last seven, my gorgeous dominant ex wife divorced me in 2014. Been searching for a new dominant female for seven years now. I realize you can’t train a woman to be dominant, as I have tried exploring this with various other women who I’ve been dating. I don’t think I’ll ever be happy again unless I’m under a gorgeous dominant females control. Please help me find her! Not interested in one night sessions or websites, exchange sessions for money. I simply want a dominant female to own and control me. Please help this submissive man!

  3. I wish to be trained as a good slave for dominating ladies. I need to get training in this field
    I hope this site may help me to become a good slave for ladies.

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