Ways to ease into a Femdom Lifestyle

Femdom Lifestyle

Because it is such an uncommon lifestyle nowadays, many men and women both tend to have much trouble adjusting to a new kind of erotic experience with each other. Throughout most women’s lives, they are told to be gentle, soft, submissive, etc., while the opposite is expected of men.

However, it comes as no surprise that there are women who would like to try taking charge in a relationship. What happens if a woman begins feeling the desire to tie up her partner and tell him who’s boss? Fantasizing is much different than actually doing the deed. It makes sense that some partners would have trouble actually fulfilling this desire. Some people are great at just going straight for it. There are some women that struggle with nervousness, especially if it’s their first time taking charge. Even the thought of failure could further accentuate the feelings of nervousness she may be feeling.

How to start in Femdom Lifestyle

One great way to start off is by using a blindfold. A woman might feel much more confident in being dominant if her partner can’t see her. In addition, blindfolding technically counts as domination, so that checks out. However, remember to talk this through with your partner before doing anything in this article. It might be taken the wrong way if a woman suddenly begins taking charge with no warning. Choosing to tie someone up or blindfold them can be a huge problem in many ways. Especially if the partner is completely against the whole idea before a woman can fulfill her fantasies. Without further ado, here are a few erotic Femdom lifestyle scenes for partners to try out in a femdom relationship.

Play with your Femdom Fantasies

If a woman is not necessarily looking to be dominant for the entire session, she can always offer to let her partner have their way with her on the condition that they actually pleasure her and fulfill her desires. If he isn’t very obedient, then they’ll just have to try another night, but if the man is serious about obeying her, then the scene can take many different turns from that point forward. Finally, at the center of most sensual fantasies is the desire to be objectified, or used somewhat like a sex toy.

It’s easy to simply straight up tell her partner that she wants to use him for her own pleasure, but if that rattle her brain too much, then other cues such as being more touchy work fine. Either way, as long as the woman is dominant without being completely unreasonable, then usually, her partner will be willing to go along with her fantasies. All of these are great ways to ignite a sensual relationship involving femdom or domination.