7 Femdom Rules Every Dominant Wife Should Know
1.) Keeping him locked is keeping him interested.
An important component of a man’s sexual reeducation should include experiencing the pleasure of ceding sexual control to his Dominant wife. I’ll go out on a limb and say practically any essentially strong Femdom marriage or relationship will benefit from male chastity. The reasons are at the same time both complex and simple. In fact, I’ll slide out even further on the limb and claim if you’re an average healthy woman and you enjoy a healthy sex-life then male chastity should be an integral part of your life. Your partner will be more complacent and more focused on your needs. Keeping him locked up is non-negotiable. His orgasms are yours to give, not something that he has a right to by default.
2.) In a Femdom relationship… getting the strap-on is not an option.
He’ll scream like a little sissy bitch the first few strap-on times. All of that’s very normal. But just keep at it. Your goal is to make it a very normal part of his experience. After a while, some pretty wonderful things will start to happen. His selfish, argumentative masculine edge will dissipate. He will become much more cooperative and attentive to your needs. His submissive side will come out and blossom. He will become much less concerned with his orgasms, and more focused on yours. His erogenous zone will slowly start to shift from the head of his penis to the opening to his asshole and his prostate gland. It is therefore very important to make sure your partner receives a good Dominant wife fuck session one a week.
3.)If he cums, he cleans
Another basis Femdom Rule I guess. If you have given your partner the privilege of an orgasm, it is vital that he cleans up his own mess. It doesn’t matter if he came in your pussy, on himself or on the floor. It is a vital part of his submission that you force him to clean up. Of course, he never cums unless you had an orgasm first!
4.) If you have penetrative sex, stay in control
When you crave sexual penetration and your lover is not around, you must ensure it is done in a way that not only satisfies you but maintains your dignity and dominance over your partner. You can do this by using the Cowgirl position, where you control the entry and penetration of his penis into you but the best way is probably the Amazon Position.
Place your partner on his back with hands behind his head, tell him to keep them there. Handcuff him if you want. Then, lift and spread his legs and push them backwards toward his shoulders (like you would normally do when you fuck him with your strapon). Pull his erect cock up and sit on it, riding him up-and-down with your crotch pressing onto his ass. Ride him harder and harder, as you push back his legs to his shoulders, and pushing his cock deeper into you. You are now in full control as a Dominant wife “Amazon” fucking him.
5.) Submissive men wear panties
At least most of the time 🙂 A slave should not wear undergarments if the design of the item of apparel is expressly approved by you. A simple way to enforce your dominance is to each day decide if your partner can wear normal underwear or should wear girly panties. Simply lay them out before you go to bed each day, it takes less than a minute but will definitely make his submissive clock tick! If you want to take it a step further you could send him to work wearing holdup stockings. None will notice but he’ll be reminded of his status every minute of the day!
6.) Spank him once a week to make sure you have his attention!
Rigorously adhering to a schedule of weekly discipline session for a submissive partner is very important. At a scheduled time each week, you and your partner know that you will have him over your lap, over the back of a chair, or over the edge of the bed for an extended session with the cane or whatever tool you select. This session may include or be preceded by a scolding about his behavior of late, and a recounting of what has pleased you and what has left you wondering exactly how lazy he thought you should allow him to become. This is the session that will fix that laziness and it provides the opportunity for you to vent your frustration – like a discharge of built-up electrical power. When the frustration and irritation are gone the spanking ends, and not before. What’s important here is that this is not ‘ playtime’ and this is not for his pleasure. Spankings are meant to hurt as your partner is supposed to actually learn from the lessons you try to teach him.
7.) Get a lover… He needs to be humiliated
I made a post about the importance of cuckolding not so long ago so I will keep this simple. Getting a lover is something you do as much for yourself as you do it for your partner. As a Dominant wife, you deserve hot steamy sex every once in a while and you deserve the freedom of cuckolding your partner (whose little tiny penis is locked up most of the time) gives you. It serves as an important outlet and opportunity for you to further explore your sexual fantasies (as well as fulfill those of your partner) and desires, and to quench and fulfill sexual needs that your partner cannot possibly hope to satisfy. You don’t need to fuck around with just anyone; finding a good, understanding, lover takes time. That being said, if you don’t have one yet, you better start searching (because that’s half the fun 😉 )!
Putting the above together
Keeping up a Femdom relationship can take effort and it is important to try and keep that effort to a minimum. Therefore it is important that you keep it simple: Spanking is once a week – unless he deserves something additional. Set a time and keep to it; usually this will take no more than 15 minutes of your time.
He is always to wear a chastity cage of which only you have the key and is to wear the underwear you prepare for him. Again, strong reminders for him that you are in charge with minimal effort from your side. Picking out his panties for the next day takes about 1 minute and can actually be a lot of fun. Keeping him chaste has great benefits and minimal effort as well.
Make sure to have time at least twice a week for sex in your relationship. In the busy schedules, people tend to have these days that will require effort at times but forcing yourself to a set number will enhance your sex life greatly. With having sex in this context I mean you having an orgasm. Additionally, you make sure to fuck him with your strap-on at least once a week. Penetrative sex happens on occurrence; whenever you feel like it. And remember to make him clean up whenever he gets the privilege of an orgasm!
Last but definitely not least, start looking for a second man in your life if you don’t have a lover yet. If your partner is anything like mine, he’ll crave it even more than you.
Keeping the above in mind you can greatly improve the quality of your relationship by dedicating about one hour a week to your lifestyle.
my God…Tbis is the life I should be living. A sub man.
I’ve “twitching”, and climbing tbe walls
ever since I laid eyes on this sight last night.
this was almost certainly written by a man in his underpants
These are excellent rules for destroying toxic masculinity and re-training and re-educating men!
Yes I agree
I will obey all the rules, i trust you like anything. search meu namarado m c carol on youtube.
sclav sincer cauta stapana, chiar sotie/stapana
Do you think this are the only rules to follow in order to have a dominant wife ?
To bad the modern chastity devices with the tube are not good for the blood-vesssels in the penis. The ability to get a proper hardon diminishes in a couple of years, the stffnes gets weaker and ther will be less cum. Some women thinks this is a good thing,.
I’m a unique person because I am a lesbian female dominant with a male slave. I’m a very oral person and can eat pussy as well as suck someone’s cock. I have my slave trained to be rewarded by my mouth when he has done everything I ask. I did not take come in my mouth forcing him to ejaculate all over himself instead. I spend most of my time with my lesbian lover ignoring my male slave as much as possible. Are use my slave for monetary reasons using his paychecks to pay for my lifestyle. I taught him do enjoy anal sex first by giving him prostate massage then I took his anal cherry with a strap on. now he’s hooked on taking it in the ass begging me for my cock rather than begging me for pleasuring his own cock. I own his body so he gets whipped quite hard with several toys on a regular basis. He knows he is privileged to be owned by a beautiful lesbian who most of the time treats him well. Not too many slaves get to watch his mistress make love to her girlfriend as he works for me around the house.
As a sub this post resonates with me deeply, in terms of my experience. My wife is now expecting, I will be expected to help bring it up. It certainly won’t be mine because I am in permanent chastity and only orgasm from a strap-on. However, this is how I server my wife and as a sub I have no other option.
This is an important point when it comes to fucking your guy with a dildo. I woman should never use a dildo with balls. Buy a decent size dildo that only has a base that fits comfortably over your clitoral region for stimulation. Get a leather harness that pulls the base of the dildo snugly against your clitoral region so it will be constantly stimulated while fucking. The dildo is an extension of your clitoris and you should be proud of it while being stimulated during the fuck. A dominant woman using a strap on his not pretending to be a guy but a liberated woman who can fuck with her extended clitoris to bring her man under submission. She teaches her man the pleasures of prostate stimulation with her extended clitoris only allowing him to come through prostate stimulation. Teach your guy to stay flaccid while you are enjoying fucking his ass because he hast to learn the new way of coming through his prostate.
Well done
Butchj, what do you use> I have a feeldo, but the clitoral stim is limited
Some of these points that espoused here can lead to an unhealthy relationship, possibly ending in violence against the fem. There are much better points to make in this respect. Dont ever forget that the sub is a person also, or it may end up costing you dearly
For me living as a sub in an FLR where my Godess is there for me to serve, to please and to obey – no matter what She wants – that’s my ambition.
Great point Anonymous. This is for the pleasure of all in the relationship. It may be that the male sub is very much into whatever the Female Dominant wants including Consensual-Non- Consent but everyone is different and their desires are definitely not all the same. This can ruin a relationship or make it stronger . This all takes regular checking in and not letting the power exchange overwhelm you’re relationship.
If your treating your husband as a sub male, you may as well have him shave all his pubic hair. As I read offend, only real men have pubic hair.
My partner and I have been together for 6 years and have recently opened up to each other he enjoys being submissive for me and I love his submission and devotion but I don’t have anyone to talk to and I could do with some mentoring from someone who’s experienced as I seem to be making a lot of mistakes and lack some confidence is anyone willing to assist me?
Some interesting stuff here. But these are guidelines vs. hard rules. Maybe for some these are the rules that work for them. I am not sure that many people can live 24/7 with these kinds or ideals but if they can…. Cool.
There are long term effects of some of these behaviors that should not be taken lightly,
Lastly, we should all examine what we want in life. When you have a partner that wants to do the same with you… you have hit gold.
I want my sissy man to have his own vibrator but the most girly feminine one. I only allow him orgasm from bum play
Any suggestions?
I feel like I could cum in my cage right now! My wife doesn’t get it. She doesn’t understand how much power I’m giving her. She denies me orgasms sometimes but thats all she will go for. She likes to watch me struggle with not cumming and being edged. I want ALL of this.
everything but get a lover thats not in a marriage