Femdom Miss Allison Leigh Part 3
What do you find breaks males and females down the fastest?
My goal is never to break down a submissive “the fastest.” I want to provide a complete experience for a submissive that ends with their exhausted relief. That said, if I need to make an impact- a cane usually does the trick.
What is your favorite type of Lingerie/sex outfits??
I love thigh-high stockings and corsets. Sometimes it’s the traditional things that really set the mood.
Are you always dominant??
I find that a balance between dominance and submission helps me stay focused. You learn a lot about the needs of a bottom by being one.
What is a safe word/ your safe word??
I give clients a simple safe word system, as well as a nonverbal safeword to use in case we are in a loud environment or they are incapable of speaking.
Do you have limits?? Why??
Everyone has their own personal limits. It’s important to protect your own mental and physical well-being in any job, but doubly so when doing sex work. We work very intimately with our clients. You don’t want to put yourself in a situation that you will later regret.
How much do clients pay for various services??
I establish hourly pricing by what a client is asking for.
How often will a client see you?
Saying someone is a regular client usually means they see me around once a month.
So that raises and interesting question. Do you have a slave/boyfriend that you are intimate with, and if so I assume he’s locked until you want to use him?
I don’t currently have any fully submissive partners in my private life. I like my partners to hold themselves as equals.
What is the most extreme play session you have been involved in?
I do some fucked up shit in my personal life as well as for work, but after a while, you stop considering it extreme. Not a lot surprises me these days.
Where do you draw the line between what you will and will not do in a fetish scene?
Where you draw the line in a fetish scene is very fluid. It’s about the comfort of me and my partner.
Have you ever considered being the submissive partner in a scene in order to better understand a bottom’s headspace?
I’ve spent plenty of time on the bottom of scenes and think it definitely lends a unique perspective toward understanding the needs and headspace of a submissive. Some Mistresses find shame in admitting that they have submitted- but to do so is to undermine the value in those who serve us. It is only through greater knowledge that we can improve ourselves.
Is BDSM (Bondage, Dominance, Sadism and Masochism) something you’ve always been into?
Some of my earliest fantasies are kinky. I recall specifically an image of restraining a man by standing over him in high heels.
Do you consider yourself a sensual domme, strict domme, or both?
I am a very multifaceted Domme. I love both sensuality and structure.
Have you found personal intimacy and personal eroticism in BDSM relations? Is your personality the same out of scene as in scene?
There is definitely a lot of kink and BDSM woven in through my personal life, but my behavior shifts with the environment at the time. I’m not Mistress when I’m curled up watching a movie.
What, if anything, makes you really angry at a sub, and not in a good way?
The main thing that a submissive could do to piss me off is fail to communicate. Expecting me to be a mind-reader doesn’t serve either of us well.
When working with another Mistress do you ever have a bit of friendly competition?
Double-domme sessions are fun because of the competition you can have. It’s always good-spirited, but it’s fun to enjoy a contest at the expense of a submissive’s backside.
How important is after care to you?
Aftercare is incredibly important to the needs of a submissive. Everyone requires something different, but it’s critical to reintroduce your submissive to reality.
Again we would like to thank Miss Allison Leigh so much for taking the time to fill out our Q&A. I have attached her page here for any of you who would like to pay her a visit! Hope you have all enjoyed and have found this very informative!
http://missallisonleigh.wixsite.com/missallisonleigh
