”The longer he spends in chastity, the stronger your feminine power will be.” This could be the advice from a Dominatrix to another one about why a submissive man should wear a chastity cage.
What is a chastity cage?
Chastity belts are a type of chastity device used in BDSM as part of the practice of orgasm denial. The goal is to prevent the wearer from engaging in certain types of sexual activity without the permission of the dominant, who acts as the “keyholder”, possessing the key that unlocks the chastity belt.
Who invented the chastity cage? The “chastity cage” (or chastity belt) was not invented by one specific person. The earliest mention of such a device in Western literature is in Konrad Kyeser von Eichstätt’s 1405 manuscript “Bellifortis,” a military technology catalog. However, evidence suggests it may have been conceived as a joke.
Who wears the chastity cage? The submissive male who is engaged in a Femdom-Led Relationship can wear a chastity device. The dominant partner, the Dominatrix, has total control of the submissive’ sexual life. She is the one who decides when to release the submissive or not. The Dominatrix can, even, decide to leave the chastity cage permanently.
It might seem like a contradiction, but fans of male chastity explained how abstaining from sex, or taking their penis out of the equation, has made their sex lives better. That’s because “sex” doesn’t just mean penis-in-vagina anymore. They’ve gotten creative and discovered new ways to experience pleasure.
What are the benefits of a male chastity cage?
Wearing a chastity cage:
- Stops masturbation
- Prevents erections.
- Makes the ejaculations almost impossible.
- Keeps small penises small, safe, and protected where they belong.
- Makes the wearer submissive and eager to please others.
- Keeps the wearer at a hightened sense of sexual readiness.
- Creates a healthy dynamic between couples.
What is the psychology behind chastity cages? Chastity bondage is not just about physical restraint; it also taps into the psychological aspects of power dynamics and control. For some individuals, the act of surrendering control over their sexual pleasure can be incredibly thrilling on both ends.
What are the effects of long-term male chastity?
However, longer-term wear can increase the risk of complications, such as skin irritation, urinary tract infections, or even nerve damage. It’s essential to listen to your body and take regular breaks to ensure your physical and emotional well-being.
Chastity belts are sometimes used in play in consensual relationships. They are a means for the wearer to surrender control over their sexual behavior either for sexual play, or as a long-term method of preventing infidelity or masturbation. They range from simple leather or plastic toys commonly sold by adult stores to expensive high-security stainless steel devices made by a handful of specialist firms.
The internet has significantly increased the number of people using chastity devices, with internet advertisements and amateur erotic content sites often serving as the means of discovery of chastity devices and their use. Similarly, the internet has allowed consumers to acquire devices more easily, faster, anonymously, and from a wider range of manufacturers and retailers. Simultaneously, the internet has provided a private avenue for subcultures dedicated to their usage, fostering the culture and allowing individuals with interests in chastity to connect with one another, both on the internet and in person.
What does it mean to be kept in chastity?
Someone who is chaste refrains from sexual activity that is considered immoral or from any sexual activity, according to their state of life. In some contexts, for example, when making a vow of chastity, chastity means celibacy.
Chastity is viewed as a virtue that empowers individuals to control their desires and make responsible choices regarding their sexuality. It’s about integrating one’s sexuality with one’s spiritual and physical well-being, finding wholeness and unity within oneself. Abstinence, a key aspect of chastity, involves refraining from sexual activity, particularly before marriage.
For married couples, chastity means being faithful and loyal to each other, valuing their marriage vows, and respecting the sanctity of their union. Celibacy is a more specific vow of chastity, often taken by those who dedicate themselves to a life of service and prayer, such as priests and religious sisters. The meaning of chastity can vary depending on whether someone is single, married, or consecrated to a religious life.
In conclusion, Chasity is love. We should love them for who they are. And not what we can get out of that relationship.
