In this second part, I continue to give you advice on how to tame your submissive husband.
Taming My Submissive Husband: Enforcing Chastity and Control in Our Marriage
I know what I want, and I impose it on my submissive husband. He is not allowed to have sexual intercourse, and as long as he is married to me, he will not penetrate anyone. However, I love it when he pleasures me orally, and he does so almost daily. He sees me walking around naked, but unfortunately, I think it frustrates him. I allow him to masturbate if I grant him his weekly release, but he does it alone, I don’t watch, and he cannot touch me, lick me, or even look at me during those moments when he is not wearing his cage.
He must serve my pussy knowing he will never penetrate a woman again. It’s humiliating for a man to only use his tongue instead of his penis. Being on his knees with his face buried between my legs is a daily reminder of his position in our relationship. Moreover, it’s still hard for him to accept, but over time, he continues to adapt and comply.
My submissive husband is docile and calm. My dominant attitude and my system of rewards and punishments make him a well-behaved boy. The fact that he has a high libido is important for me to maintain control. The incentive of periodic release keeps him in line. With my bitchy side, I enjoy that his male hormones are highly active while he is tightly caged, and I take cruel pleasure in teasing and arousing him when I’m in the mood.
Balancing Lovers and Loyalty: Controlling My Submissive Husband Through Chastity and Cuckolding
I see several other men because I enjoy penetrative sex and the company of real, interesting, and sexy men. I love having sex with different lovers. However, I don’t bring them home.
My submissive husband struggles to cope with being cuckolded and knowing that he won’t penetrate me or any other woman, for that matter. He is forced to accept it, but I don’t want to make things worse by bringing men home and having them meet.
I’ve never had him serve me orally after one of my dates; I don’t think it’s necessary, and it would be counterproductive.
But I keep my husband because I appreciate his companionship, his support, and being married to him and sharing our lives. 95% of my orgasms come from my husband. He pleasures me with his tongue almost every day. It’s true that I sometimes enjoy the company of other men and desire full sexual intercourse, but that’s secondary compared to the intimacy I have with my husband. There is a fantasy in my relationship with him, in the sense that I love having total control over him, and I admit that the power trip excites me. But there’s another major advantage to keeping him chaste besides my perversion: he stays focused, well-behaved, and motivated. Without chastity, our marriage would probably collapse due to his laziness. However, it’s not a fantasy for him at all. He hates being caged, but it’s the price to pay to maintain our relationship, and he knows it’s ultimately beneficial for him.
Mastering Mental and Physical Control: My Submissive Husband’s Chastity and Submission Journey
I’ve considered control through electric shocks, but in truth, my husband rarely needs correction, and I haven’t bought an electric system. But I admit it could sometimes be amusing to zap him.
Physically, the adjustment period to the chastity cage was relatively short. There were no issues after about a week, and there haven’t been any since.
Mentally, it’s been much longer. I’d say the adjustment is still ongoing to some extent. He constantly has his chastity on his mind, and it’s very frustrating for him. So, the mental adaptation is the real challenge, not the physical issues.
He has certainly never been attracted to chastity and continues to struggle with it. He’s never shared his opinion with me, but this is an opportunity, and I have no objection to him expressing it.
My husband is not keen on being penetrated anally, but he must accept and endure it, and he keeps his cage on. Besides the display of power, it’s also physically arousing for me. After penetrating him, I usually have him turn around, and he must bring me to orgasm with his tongue.
In summary: the only hand on his penis is his own, and the only thing penetrated by the dildo is his ass.
Shaping Submission: How Chastity Transformed My Husband’s Role and Mindset
He has never climaxed from anal penetration, but if it ever happens, I would encourage it, as it would reinforce his pleasure in submitting to my power.
His cage is well-fitted, and there’s no chance he could masturbate while I’m not home. His previous cage was less well-fitted, and he managed to slip out and masturbate. But now, he no longer resists and accepts the situation. There are certainly tough moments to endure, but also enough good moments to make it worth living under my authority.
My husband has accepted the role traditionally considered feminine in our relationship. Instead of taking initiative, he has learned to follow my rules, ask for my instructions, and respect boundaries. He has adopted a mindset of seeking to please me (and avoiding displeasing me ) to earn rewards.
He has learned to adapt to my moods and adjust his behavior to my whims. I can say that the chastity cage has erased all arrogance and the little masculine pride he had left.
Embracing Submission: How Chastity Reshaped My Husband’s Purpose and Our Marriage
Wearing the cage is excruciatingly frustrating and not easy to bear, even after all this time. However, it forces him to channel his energy elsewhere and adopt a mindset to cope with his situation, stay busy, and take pride in completing his many tasks. He has learned to find pleasure in pleasing me and earning my appreciation and approval. It’s hard for people to understand, but this new mindset brings him satisfaction and acceptance. Instead of selfish desires, he focuses on his tasks. Moreover, instead of being idle, he keeps busy to avoid the punishment of additional abstinence.
Aside from wearing his cage, he has adapted to my total control and his submission, knowing that I support him on every level. We enjoy our life as a couple and doing things together. He no longer has the pressure of “being a man,” something he struggled with anyway.
In fact, he has sacrificed his masculinity, but in return, he no longer has the stress of being the breadwinner, making decisions, or wasting time with macho men.
Empowered Dominance: The Thrill of Taming My Husband into Total Submission
It’s certain that for me, it’s an immense surge of power! Our arrangement is practical, but I don’t deny how much this power makes me feel. Every morning, I wake up with my husband’s attributes locked away while I hold the key. Moreover, I feel the satisfaction of having tamed a man to the point of having his total obedience. Now, my husband’s life consists of serving me in every way, practically and sexually.
Sometimes, I look in the mirror. I smile thinking about how hard I’ve worked to build this dream life. In fact, I’ve been clever and powerful enough to tame a man and make him entirely dependent on me. Few women can say the same. I have total power, and it’s hard to describe how exciting and fulfilling it is. Moreover, it only gets better day by day.
I’ve often been described as uncompromising. I’m proud to have taken a man and placed him under my total control—sexually, financially, and as a domestic servant. For those considering it, it takes self-confidence, mental strength, and patience to eliminate a man’s masculine flaws and make him an ideal husband, but it’s worth it.
