Introducing Femdom Mistress Lady Chyna

Meet a True Femdom Mistress Lady Chyna – Part 1

I would like to take a moment to thank a wonderful woman for helping us truly understand what a Femdom Mistress is and does. We wanted to help our readers understand more about the Femdom lifestyle from the Femdom Mistresses point of view. She has been helping submissive men fulfill their desires for years, so if you have any questions or comments feel free to comment here. Lady Chyna explains to us in detail her Femdom lifestyle, as well as her business so I would like to start with some of the basics.

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The First most important questions is; What does a Femdom Mistress do?
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The answer as she puts it is simple “I am here to help guide submissive men to explore their fetishes and fantasies.”
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When did you first realize that you were a Dominat Female and when did that knowledge manifest itself?
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“As a female with a strict Asian decent, the expectation is (Stereotypical) submissive female. It never felt quite right. Wasn’t till after high school that I realized the true me is really assertive, firm, no BS type. That was the REAL me.

Do you feel that you were born to be a dominatrix and dominant person or was it something that you learned and grew into?

I believe dominant is an in born concept, it’s just something I learned as I got older

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Did you start work as a Pro – Domme alongside another Domme as a kind of apprentice?
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Yes, It started with a friend who invited me to be in a double Domme session. She taught me a lot of skills, after a few years of working together she retired. I then went out on my own.
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Once you realized that you were a dominant Female was it a smooth move into being a Pro – Domme?
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Definitely, along with my Domme friend guiding me through the transition it was smooth. However this craft is something that you continue to learn day by day.
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What kind of training did you have to go through to get to where you are today?
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From meeting different subs, understanding, and clear lay out of fetishes/fantasies. Good communication is really key.

Do you dominate just male subs or do you also dominate Female subs? If so is it done the same way?

I only dominate male subs.

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How do you perceive the “Lifestyle” as being viewed in mainstream society?
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Compared to roughly little over a decade ago when I first started, it’s not so taboo in the mainstream, pop culture. But in subs personal lives, they are not very open to friends, families etc about it. Of course some are married and it’s not an easy subject to speak to their significant other about. It does become their own little secret.
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How do you feel about the way that Pro – Dommes get portrayed in the media?
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Its pretty one sided. I feel every Pro – Dommes have their own uniqueness. Immediately the media portray us as females who just spend all day beating the crap out of a guy. Which is NOT the case. We are, my opinion, very understanding, fair, non-judgmental, strong females. As some fetishes has nothing to do with pain, but more psychology.
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How long have you been a Pro – Domme and have YOU seen many changes within that time?
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I have been a Pro – Domme for 13 years, and I feel maybe from mainstream acceptance, subs are more open and sure of what they are looking for.
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What would you say is your prime attribute that makes you a Dominant Woman?
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There are 7 Keys; Understanding, boundaries, being consistently firm, compassion, seduction, sadomasochist, and caring.
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What satisfies you the most about being a Femdom Mistress?
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I love being in control, and helping subs explore their fantasies. It’s very fulfilling.
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What was the last request that surprised you?
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LOL, Not Much! Not much usually surprises me anymore, the last request that I had to decline was a sub wanted for me to suffocate him for over 2 minutes. For safety reasons its just a no no.
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What was your most memorable session?
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A shy gentalman in his early 80’s. After successfully raising his family, with great grand kids, he said all his life he had been on the feminine side, he loves cross dressing, But he couldn’t tell anyone about it, he was a very humble man. He said to me you have one life, live it the way you want and don’t wait forever. Live in the present, it was very endearing.
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What is your favorite footwear?
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I LOVE thigh high boots!!