The chastity cage is not a sex toy that you play with for a little while and then put back in the sex toy drawer. For some, making someone wear a chastity cage is a punishment.
As for me, I see it only as a gift given to the Woman of one’s life.
I consider it a piece of jewelry, and one shouldn’t be ashamed to wear this beautiful intimate jewel but rather proud of it. Once locked in this jewel, you quickly become addicted to it.
My First Experience with a Chastity Cage
The first erection in the cage, you can feel the tension, the resistance the cage imposes. It actually gives a sense of solidity. A sense of confidence. A sense of security.
From that moment on, you can feel invincible, like wearing a helmet.
It doesn’t take long for him to fall completely in love with being in the cage.
After some time getting used to it, you’ll feel completely naked without the cage.
One day, my former Mistress gave me a chastity cage for my birthday. She was extremely jealous, and I think for her it was a way to reassure herself. I didn’t even know such a thing existed back then. At first, it’s not easy to get used to, but afterward, when you stop wearing it, you feel a void. Nocturnal erections are painful, but at least you can only think of your Mistress.
So, I was introduced to wearing a chastity cage very early on. Plus, I had several models throughout our relationship. You have to try a few before finding the right one. At first, I had to keep it on during the weekend, then in the evenings after work to get accustomed to it. Finally, one day, it was a Monday morning before heading to work, she tenderly caressed my cheek with her most beautiful smile and said:
- “Today, you’re keeping it on.”
I confess that deep in my soul, I was proud to give her this gift. And little by little, I had to wear it permanently.
The Chastity Cage: A Symbol of Devotion and Belonging
It’s true that at the beginning it’s not easy to bear, both physically and mentally. But over time, you get used to it, and it even becomes something you miss when it’s removed for a thorough cleaning or a moment of solitary pleasure. You end up wanting only one thing: to put it back on as soon as possible. Mentally, you realize it’s a gift you’re giving to your Mistress. I don’t need a cage to be faithful because I’m not a womanizer, but it remains a beautiful symbol of belonging.
Anyway, when a submissive has the privilege of belonging to his Mistress, he doesn’t look elsewhere. It’s a symbol of ownership, just like wearing a collar, except the collar is only worn inside the house—sometimes under a turtleneck or scarf. A submissive above all needs such symbols of belonging, to know that he belongs to a Mistress.
A part of the Mistress is thus constantly present with you throughout the day. It should be mandatory at weddings to prevent some men from fooling around elsewhere.
Chastity Cage: Unlocking a Deeper Love in Submission
As for wearing a chastity cage, it makes us 100% more in love and servile to the One we love above all else.
The submissive first and foremost trusts his Mistress and is ready to do anything to see her smile. For example, at 20 years old, if someone had shown me a chastity cage, I would’ve found it barbaric, but later, I wore one 24/7. Why? Because the Lady I loved wanted me to wear it, and it made her happy.
A D/s shared life is the most beautiful kind of relationship because there’s no deception, and the submissive is completely transparent with his Mistress. Private life concerns no one else.
As the saying goes: “To live happily, live hidden.” A D/s relationship is an unconventional one that many don’t understand.
As I say, I’m not a lesser man, but a man with a special kind of love to offer.
In other words, the cage is just a prison of love, locked with the key to paradise.
