Flogging : How to Correctly Use A Flogger

About Flogging

Most people think that using a flogger is a piece of cake but it is not!
Flogging is ultimately supposed to be gratifying to both parties.
As the rest of the toys, you are planning on using with your submale, You Need To Learn And Practice, Practice, Practice your flogging.
You can practice from flogging the wall at first, then turning to a small object such as a pillow or a teddy bear but always focusing on where you are going to strike and the intensity you are going to apply.

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SafeWord when flogging

It is very important before using a flogger on your partner for the first time to establish a safe word. Most important is to pay attention and stop when it is said. Some people think they can take the pain, but the truth is that most of them will be using the safe word before they know it. A flogger looks like a harmless toy but it is not. It has to be used properly not to hit spots that can’t be injured deeply.
In addition, pertinent medical or physical problems should be made known before beginning.

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Where to Hit with a flogger

The upper back on each side of the spine but stay off the spine to prevent injury to the vertebrae and related tissues.
Hips, Upper Butt, Legs, Chest, etc.

A tip for you: Avoid swinging it, by varying this motion you can control how much of the tails connect with the skin.

 

 

Avoid Wrapping

Wrapping is when the tips of the tails wrap around a curved part of the body such as the shoulders, torso, butt or legs. When you do it, the tips accelerate and it increases the pain tremendously.

Targets to be careful with

The butt for example. It needs higher precision because of its size and roundness to prevent unnecessary wrapping on hips and inner areas. Also, avoid hitting the tailbone.
The thighs can be flogged but should be done with extra attention to the power in wrapping.

 

Parts of the body to avoid while Flogging

The kidney area, shouldn’t be flogged except maybe with very light, miniature floggers. Stay away from all joints of the legs and arms, and the head and neck should never be flogged.
Also, be aware that there is a big difference in flogging someone in the standing position versus lying down.

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How to start to Flog

if you have more than one flogger, use the lighter one before going to the heavier ones.
Go from soft to hard blows or alternate.
Try different areas so each one of them has some time to recover

Flogger and blood

You should learn to use your flogger very well and this is one of the most important reasons why I mentioned in the first paragraph to Practice thoroughly. You do not want to cut your partner, you do not want blood on your flogger. But yes mistakes can happen, if so:
Whether you have more than 1 partner or not, after a small amount of blood on the skin appears, you will clean the skin and use a bandaid. But what should you do with the flogger? That is a different story and a process about how to clean it.

You do not want to ruin the leather of your precious flogger so you have 3 choices:

a) Most blood or body secretions on leather will quickly be absorbed, but any that is still wet should be wiped with a dry cloth while wearing a glove. Then before using the flogger on another person, it should be hung to air-dry in a warm, dry place for at least one week– AIDS and hepatitis viruses will be killed by then.

b) Some would suggest cleaning the tails with a cloth moistened with a fresh solution of bleach mixed 1 part to 10 parts and then waiting 10 minutes before using the flogger on someone else.

c) A few may suggest both the bleach solution and then drying for one week, but this may be more than is needed. On the other hand, we are talking about AIDS and hepatitis, so personally I would choose this third option.

I hope this article helps you and remember Practice makes Perfect!

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